The wish to control others is part of wanting to control one’s life.

The  idea of trying to control one’s life is born out of fear.

The EGO imagines it is in charge and makes one believe this.


However if one imagines one is a surfer riding the waves of life one can soon get the hang of balancing on the board of ones spirit.

The balancing gets easier with time and eventually one really does control one’s destination.